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Drama Queens

Yaaayy, so glad i decided to do this.
it will take all of my time lol.

Anyway;

Today I talk about how much we girls love drama(here in after referred to as *she*)
Seriously.. we have that sick attachment to *she*.
When she is not there we beg for her.
how i know? well

Exhibit A; a girl has been in a relationship for a while and loves her man.
they understand each other but when there is no drama she kinda feels
something is missing.
its unbelievable the stupid little arguments she will pick just to
tick her man off. he loves her but just cannot get why she just keeps
pushing it.
*She* in this case intoxicates us into thinking that we are getting the attention
we need from our relationships.

Exhibit B; take the customer service girl in the bank who gets paid to be nice
but once you step into her office looking smart and all *she*(drama) shows her head
and little miss customer care starts to give you attitude, and you wonder in your mind
"is she not meant to be nice?" i mean your money pays her salary.. then you start the dramatic asking for her manager "are you even qualified to deal with me? Let me see your manager?
*she in this case carefully convinces both ladies involved that we are better than each other..

We ladies are just programmed like that. the Drama is our default programme we are just written that way and we cant help it.


Anyway thats it for me for now.. Got to get back to my books (my reality kills but i love it)

Comments

  1. Yu Tei28 October 2011 at 10:17

    Nice one babe...you write well..you should take this to the next level don't you think?

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