Kimi Shy

I care too damn much At some point in your life, you come to figure out that growing up and growing old happens to be 2 different things. Growing up is much more mental that it's physical and it's not restricted to age brackets, growing old however is. Here are a few things I have stumbled on about me while struggling to grow up I actually do care (sadly a bit too much.) I have read a few self-help books on how to live a life of no qualms but I happen to be one of those people who does care. I give a s*@$ about the person who will use the public toilet after me and I give a care about the person who will clean it so I don't leave a mess behind. I  care about the people who I will talk to during the day so it makes me brush my teeth and I do in fact care a lot to have a bath so that I don’t kill the people I meet with bad odours. I care about my friends so much so that I pray for them and I reach out when I can but most importantly even while  I can't I make...

Photo by Clarke Sanders on Unsplash                                      Every Woman (Tear Eye 2) There is this throwback jam that still plays in my head when I put on my big girl heels to hold a training, anchor a meeting or execute a project.  It’s Mama Whitney singing: "I'm every woman it's all in me Anything you want done baby I'll do it naturally" Even when  I am in those sexy heels to take "Daddy" to church or maybe those trainers to hit the road or the slippers to wash plate or cook or no shoes at all to get down and play with my little girl. I am all these women. I am the antagonistic Stanger across the room who you figure is too overbearing who you figure has an unhappy home because I don't fit into your box. I am the wife who allows her husband introduce her to all his friends and who may sit and smile when his acquaintance makes a comm...