Welcome to 2017 (as if I am the gate keeper
to the year. lol) in the spirit of new things, I have some questions that have
been on my mind and I will love to share with you.
I wrote this post late last year, but i figured the best way to start a new page is to ask questions then spend the whole time finding answers.
I read somewhere that the questions we ask
ourselves improve our experience of any given situation. If you don't fully
understand something you cannot fully expose yourself to something you don't
understand. So based on my quest to fully understand life I have a few questions to ask and though they are not ground breaking, they are
questions I have and will like to know your answers to.
Caution you will find no answers here...👀👀
What is shame and why do we have it? is it a
reflex of our minds to help us not do the stuff we have imposed on ourselves as
wrong?
Why is it that people who work hard do not
get any returns but people who work smart get everything. Is hard work not
really all it's cracked up to be?
Why is it that we are okay that younger women
date older men, but it's like a fly is crawling up our backs when we see an
older woman with a younger man. Is it that society has desexualised women so
much so that when they reach a certain age and do anything we deem remotely
sexy we think they are not normal.
Why is it that women are looked at as horrible
when we like a man because of money, but it's okay for a man to solely like a woman
because she is beautiful, isn't it basically
the same thing? There has to be something that attracts people right? if its
beauty or money then what's the fuss? both of them are transient.
Why can you tell a guy his dad is a player and he kind of takes it as a compliment to his
blood line and when you say his mum is a player, it's like he dies inside
(lol.. real life experience)
Why is it that people look impressed when a
beautiful woman is smart? They look impressed or happy like they just discovered
an anomaly, but when a regular looking woman is smart people don't seem moved
kind of like she should have something going for her if it's her brain then
thank God.
Why is it that when a woman cannot cook and a
man gets with her, people think that the man is really trying? Lol like he did
not know what he was getting into in the first place.
Why is that your kid can bring you so much happiness
one moment and not 30 minutes later has you pulling out your hair in anger because
they won't listen.
Why is it that you are thinking about how fortunate
you are one minute, then just a second later you start imagining yourself
without all these people or things you love and you're scared as shit.
Why Okafor's Law anyway?
Why is it okay for a guy to buy something
sexy or naughty for his girlfriend and act out his fantasies with his
girlfriend as opposed to his wife? Isn't a wife meant to be the height of man's
excitement in that regard?
Why is it that we try to fight against
everything our parents taught us in order to find ourselves then consider
ourselves found and come right back to the person our parents wanted anyway?
Why can't a woman go after a man she wants,
ask him out, ask him to marry her? why does she have to wait for the man? what
if he doesn't know what he wants?
Why do people tell married women "Shakara
don end"? Do they realise that the modern wife is expected to be
everything, a maid, a whore, a dignified queen and a partner? And keep her
husband's eyes from all any other woman who are ready to destroy her home to
find a man by all means. Shakara cannot end, you have to kick ass and take
names.
Why is it harder to work with women than it
is to work with men?
When people say "they" who's they?
Why do we care what people say?
What is wrong with human beings, why are we
capable of such hate?
Why do things that are bad for you feel so
good?
WHY?
I may have my own answers to some of these (I
tend to be overzealous like that) but the beauty about questions like this is
that answers vary from person to person and experience to experience.
Happy New Year.
XOXO
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